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"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

A.J. Mahari on Audio Tough Love - Loved Ones of BPD Parts 1 & 2

A.J. Mahari on Audio Tough Love - Loved Ones of BPD Parts 1 & 2

A.J. Mahari's Audio (from her Video) on Tough Love and BPD For Loved Ones of those with BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. ...

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Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Each and every adult child of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder sooner or later comes to the realization that there is a need for and has been an on-going search for closure. Whether you, yourself, also have Borderline Personality Disorder or not, the impact of ...

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Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

How Non Borderlines can break free from the BPD maze - the emotional rollercoaster of drama, chaos and conflict and why they need to. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2007 Published by Phoenix Rising ...

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Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Audio: 35 Minutes - Do you have a loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Do you want to rescue your loved one with BPD? Have you tried to rescue him or her? Are you still trying? Is it possible to rescue someone with Borderline Personality ...

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Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love Audio Program

Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love Audio Program

"The Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About Borderline Personality Disorder and Love" Audio Program © A.J. Mahari Published by PhoenixRising Publications. This audio program is 2 1/2 hours of Mahari's must hear ...

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Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Examining Emotional Dysregulation in those with BPD. Non borderline need to understand Borderline Emotional dysregulation. A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications This audio program bundle is 1 hour and 30 minutes ...

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Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

"Facing The Facts on The Other Side of BPD" - For Loved Ones And Family Members of Those with BPD" - Non Borderlines - 10 Central Facts To Set You Free By: A.J. Mahari © December 2007 As only one who has been there can A.J. Mahari identifies ...

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Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline Mind" A.J. Mahari, ...

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Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Lack of Object Constancy and Narcissism in BPD and how that effects the workings of the "borderline mind"- The Difference Between BPD and NPD. By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications ...

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Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline Mind" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there can and made it back can, shares her insight and experience ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Nons Unhooking Audio Program This audio program has largely the same content as the Videos available by the same name. It does, however, feature one bonus track that is not part of the available ...

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Splitting in Borderline Personality - Loved Ones

Splitting in Borderline Personality -  Loved Ones

Splitting in Borderline Personality Disorder - An Understanding for Loved Ones Loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often grapple to understand this central ...

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The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines In the audio program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"