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"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

A.J. Mahari on Audio Tough Love - Loved Ones of BPD Parts 1 & 2

A.J. Mahari on Audio Tough Love - Loved Ones of BPD Parts 1 & 2

A.J. Mahari's Audio (from her Video) on Tough Love and BPD For Loved Ones of those with BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. Mahari talks about ...

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Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Each and every adult child of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder sooner or later comes to the realization that there is a need for and has been an on-going search for closure. Whether you, yourself, also have Borderline Personality Disorder or not, the impact of ...

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Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

How Non Borderlines can break free from the BPD maze - the emotional rollercoaster of drama, chaos and conflict and why they need to. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2007 Published by Phoenix Rising Publications Mahari talks about how Non Borderlines can ...

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$20.99

Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Audio: 35 Minutes - Do you have a loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Do you want to rescue your loved one with BPD? Have you tried to rescue him or her? Are you still trying? Is it possible to rescue someone with Borderline Personality ...

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Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love Audio Program

Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love Audio Program

"The Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About Borderline Personality Disorder and Love" Audio Program © A.J. Mahari Published by PhoenixRising Publications. This audio program is 2 1/2 hours of Mahari's must hear insight and experience on ...

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Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Examining Emotional Dysregulation in those with BPD. Non borderline need to understand Borderline Emotional dysregulation. A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications This audio program bundle is 1 hour and 30 minutes ...

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Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

"Facing The Facts on The Other Side of BPD" - For Loved Ones And Family Members of Those with BPD" - Non Borderlines - 10 Central Facts To Set You Free By: A.J. Mahari © December 2007 As only one who has been there can A.J. Mahari identifies and ...

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Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline ...

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Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Lack of Object Constancy and Narcissism in BPD and how that effects the workings of the "borderline mind"- The Difference Between BPD and NPD. By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by PhoenixRising ...

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Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline Mind" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there can and made it back can, shares her insight and experience ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Nons Unhooking Audio Program This audio program has largely the same content as the Videos available by the same name. It does, however, feature one bonus track that is not part of the available ...

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Moving from Focusing on The Person With BPD to Your Own Recovery and Wellness

Moving from Focusing on The Person With BPD to Your Own Recovery and Wellness

Moving from Focusing on The Person With BPD to Your Own Recovery and Wellness   The road to recovery when you have or have had someone in your life with Borderline Personality Disorder requires a wide variety and wide scope of ...

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Radical Acceptance of Where You Are and Why - Loved Ones of BPD

Radical Acceptance of Where You Are and Why - Loved Ones of BPD

BPD and BPD Loved Ones Coach, A.J. Mahari talks, in this 138 minute audio, about what people on the other side of BPD - Loved Ones of BPD really need to know and understand to understand more about what is going on in the relationship with someone in your life with BPD and how ...

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Splitting in Borderline Personality - Loved Ones

Splitting in Borderline Personality -  Loved Ones

Splitting in Borderline Personality Disorder - An Understanding for Loved Ones Loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often grapple to understand this central manifestation of BPD. In the face of the reality of the splitting ...

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The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines In the audio program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"