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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

Thought Changing Affirmations - A 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations - A 5 Volume Set

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various ...

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$45.99

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various ...

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$45.99

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks 5 Volume Set

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various ...

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EBook

$45.99

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

A.J. Mahari on Video about Tough Love and BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. Mahari talks about tough love. Mahari widens the perspective on what tough ...

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$9.99

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD - Loved ones of BPD Part 2 of 2 In part two of her Video Lecture on Tough Love for loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, A.J. Mahari talksa about how and when tough love can be applied in coping with someone with BPD in your life. ...

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$9.99

Toxic Relationship - 1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session

Toxic Relationship - 1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session

Price: $80.00 1 - 60 minute phone coaching session Mental Health and Life Coach A.J. Mahari, who has has her own past toxic relationship experiences and who knows the journey of that recovery, offers this very affordable rate to those who are in or have had a toxic relationship ...

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$80.00

Toxic Relationship Couple's Coaching

Toxic Relationship Couple's Coaching

1 - 2 hour Joint (Couple's) Toxic Relationship Coaching Session Toxic relationships are increasing in our world today. There are many different reasons for this. At the core of this reality of toxic relationships, sadly, and painfully, becoming more ...

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$160.00

Toxic Relationships - Difficult Toxic and/or Abusive People

Toxic Relationships - Difficult Toxic and/or Abusive People

Coping with Difficult Toxic and/or Abusive People Generally and During the Holidays - Toxic Relationships Holidays tend to bring out the worst in difficult, toxic and/or abusive people. Holidays tend to challenge those who are in relationships, friendships, or who have family ...

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$25.99

Understanding BPD 1 - The Lost Self - The Impact of the core wound of abandonment Ebook

Understanding BPD 1 - The Lost Self - The Impact of the core wound of abandonment Ebook

Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder - The Lost Self - The Impact of The Core Wound of Abandonment Book features a thorough examination and explanation geared toward helping you understand Borderline Personality Disorder and gain insight into and awareness of the impact ...

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$18.99

Unresolved Abandonment

Unresolved Abandonment

Abandonment Negatively Impacts Relating and Relationships - Unresolved abandonment causes untold emotional and psychological suffering. Abandonment is at the core of what drives toxic relationships whether one has a mental illness or not. What you attach to without conscious ...

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Verbal Abuse - The Effects, The Danger and The Roots

Verbal Abuse - The Effects, The Danger and The Roots

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger Price: $20.99 Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and ...

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Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Danger and the Effects

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Danger and the Effects

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and informative exploration of the scope and reality of verbal abuse and its impact on ...

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Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and informative exploration of the scope and reality of verbal abuse and its impact on those who are victims of it. In ...

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Verbal Abuse and Your Mental Health - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Verbal Abuse and Your Mental Health  - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Price: $14.99 Verbal Abuse and Your Mental Health - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger Do you think that Verbal Abuse isn't all that bad? Do you think that Verbal Abuse isn't wounding? Do you think that Verbal Abuse is okay because the person abusing you isn't ...

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EBook

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What Loved Ones Need To Know About The Borderline False Self and Their Own Feelings of Guilt

What Loved Ones Need To Know About The Borderline False Self and Their Own Feelings of Guilt

Loved ones, especially partners, of those with BPD, need to know more and understand more about the false self in Borderline Personality Disorder and how it can leave you feeling empathy, sorry for, and/or guilty about your reactions or feelings to the person in your life with ...

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$20.99

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"