THE ABANDONED PAIN OF BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER Ebook
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Please note, as you will read below, you can purchase The Abandoned Pain of BPD separately or in tandem with the second ebook in this "Core Wound of Abandonment" series of ebooks (3 available now out of 5 in total) "The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder" or you can purchase the first two together with the third ebook in this series, The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False In BPD.
"The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder" is the
first ebook in a series of five ebooks by A.J. Mahari (3 available now one coming late fall of 2007 and 1 more coming early 2008) that
address various aspects of what she has termed the "core wound of abandonment" in Bordelrine Personality Disorder.
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This ebook, is 105 pages of insightful must read information about what perpetuates the suffering and self-defeating behaviour of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). A.J. shares how that suffering can be firstly transformed into manageable pain and secondly recovered from.
"The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder" is a prelude to 2 subsequent ebooks of mine in my "Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD" series of 5 ebooks, "The Legacy of Abandonment In Borderline Personality Disorder - Examining and explaining the core wound of abandonment and its central role in the ruptured toxic relating and relationships of those with BPD. This ebook is 253 pages of detailed insight that not only explains the problem but also gives the reader a roadmap for recovery.
The third ebook in this series is THE SHADOWS AND ECHOES OF SELF - The False Self Born Out of the Core Wound of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder. This ebook is 127 pages and examines the creation of the false self in those with BPD that results from the core wound of abandonment and contrasts Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. From A.J.'s journey in her recovery from BPD she knows how crucial coming to be aware of one's false self and its narcissistic self-defeating schemas are in order to transform one's life from the suffering of BPD to mental health.
In this ebook, "The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder," A.J. Mahari gives a detailed history, from the inside out, as someone who has been there and recovered from BPD, of how and why the abandoned pain of those with BPD keeps them stuck in the agonizing and seemingly mystifying suffering of Borderline Personality Disorder.
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A.J. begins with a look at the reality that the abandonment of one's pain is the result of the distorted belief that it must be escaped at all costs. Outling that those who go on to develop BPD had to initially abandon their pain in order to actually survive psychologically, albeit in fragmented pieces. However, in adulthood those with BPD must now welcome back in this abandoned and dissociated pain in order to integrate the fragments of self. It is these fragments of self and the loss of one's authentic self that leaves those with BPD without a known identity or stable sense of a known self. Being held at bay, dissociated from one's own authentic self by this abandoned borderline pain is what keeps those with BPD so stuck in untold profound suffering, isolation, learned helplessness, and alienated loneliness.
A.J. shows the borderline what this abandoned pain is trying to communicate and reveal and why. Borderline pain needs to be addressed in new and much more functional ways that enable the borderline to learn new coping skills. Coping skills that are essential to the borderline who wants to address the nature and scope of the profound core wound of abandonment
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From a detailed examination of how and why those with BPD need to honour their pain, develop some more functional, realistically-logical and more developmentally mature emotional structure, address the pain that fuels borderline rage to why borderlines question their pain and what can be learned from that, along with a look at the difference between just trying to stop the pain and actually working to firstly, manage the pain, secondly, heal the pain and truly recover, A.J. examines the value, yes, the value of borderline suffering. She decodes, if you will, the labyrinth of borderline suffering that results from continuing to escape and deny this pain. A.J. also explains and outlines how the practice of radical acceptance is the pathway to transforming borderline suffering (caused by not facing pain) into manageable (faced and confronted) pain.
What A.J. refers to as the paradox of emotional pain and the way, reasons, and results of the reclamation of this abandoned pain are proof of the pivotal role that facing, feeling, and grieving this pain plays in getting ready to be able to face one's actual core wound of abandonment. As you will read much more about in her latest ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment In Borderline Personality Disorder it is the reclamation of one's authentic self that is the pathway to the recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder.
Those diagnosed with BPD, in a relationship (friend, family member, significant other, ex-partner) with someone with BPD, as well as any professional treating someone with BPD will benefit from the insight A.J. Mahari shares based upon her own recovery from BPD.
Unlike "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD" Ebook which is the second ebook of five in A.J. Mahari's series of ebooks about what she has termed, "the core wound of abandonment" in BPD, it deals with the actual core wound of abandonment itself, the cause, and the consequences in the life and experience of those with BPD and those who try to relate to them, "The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder" Ebook, deals with and examines the pain that those who develop Borderline Personality Disorder end up abandoning. It is this very pain that causes distorted thoughts, leaves the borderline believing that everything being felt is actually happening in that unfolding moment - which is often not true in reality - and it is the pain that is re-lived over and over again in triggered regressive repetition compulsions. It is this very overwhelming pain that borderlines feel compelled to abandon because it threatens the survival of the false self. The false self that rose up and supplanted the emerging true self when the borderline (as a very young child) was unable to cope with the agony and fear generated by unmet and thwarted needs causing him or her to essentially place this pain outside of the self setting up the alienation from this pain that is at the heart of much of the continued suffering that those with this most complicated personality disorder experience.
Click here to read about my 2nd ebook: in this series The Core Wound of Abandonment
Click here to read the 3rd and latest ebook in this series THE SHADOWS AND ECHOES OF SELF
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