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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

LONELINESS - Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning

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LONELINESS
Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning and its Promise of Life Transformation

© A.J. Mahari October 26, 2006

A.J. Mahari, writes, "At the core of every human heart there is the paradox of the need and longing for connection and the reality of loneliness inter-mixed with the desire for the joy and peace of the solitude of aloneness."

This ebook includes a section on abandonment and the core wound of abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder (how it effects the non-borderline in relation to the borderline), and its impact and effect upon the loneliness experienced by those who were sexually abused.

This ebook is an examination of loneliness - including types of loneliness, causes of loneliness, Holidays and Loneliness, the lessons of loneliness, what to do about the pain of loneliness, how to cope with it. Along with the challenges of loneliness, what they are and why they are, the lessons of loneliness - what does loneliness really mean in our lives? Also explored and examined is the purpose and meaning of loneliness and the promise it offers of life transformation.

This ebook, available now, is 238 pages - 13 chapters all about Loneliness and the life affirming and transforming opportunities it presents us with through the pain and struggles we encounter with it.

PART ONE: THE CHALLENGE OF LONELINESS

Chapter 1: What is Loneliness? -- A definition of Loneliness. An examination of the continuum of Loneliness. What Loneliness isn’t. The 10 Main Ingredients Necessary To Exercise Choice & the The 10 Primary Root Causes Of Loneliness

Chapter 2: Types, Symptoms and Effects of Loneliness --The 3 Main Categories of Loneliness are examined along with 10 central Symptoms of Loneliness and the 7 Major Effects of Loneliness. The value of the challenges of Loneliness. Loneliness is such a teacher of important lessons, if you'll let it be.

Chapter 3: Holidays and Loneliness -- Holidays present difficult and lonely times for many. Why do holidays
seem to make feelings of loneliness worse? What can we do to cope with loneliness during holiday seasons?

PART TWO: ABANDONMENT WOUNDS -- in life generally, and in Borderline Personality Disorder, (BPD) effecting non-borderlines too, and Sexual Abuse.

Chapter 4: Unresolved Abandonment and Chronic Loneliness -- Even for those without formal mental illness or who were not abused in childhood can have abandonment wounds that fuel chronic loneliness.

Chapter 5: Abandonment Wounds and Loneliness in Borderline Personality Disorder -- Abandonment wounds and consistent abandonment fears of those diagnosed with BPD create and perpetuate chronic and intolerable loneliness. Plus the loneliness of the non-BP (ex) partner is explored. You do not have to have a personality disorder or mental illness to have unresolved abandonment issues that are a central part of your loneliness.

Chapter 6: Abandonment Wounds in Loneliness from Sexual Abuse -- For those who have been sexually abused the result is abandonment wounds similar to those in BPD that enliven many of the root causes of loneliness defined in my continuum of loneliness. This continuum of loneliness applies to all of us, not just to people who have been sexually abused.

PART THREE: THE PURPOSE AND MEANING OF LONELINESS

Chapter 7: The Necessity of Loneliness -- Loneliness is necessary because it is the pathway to the soul and the authentic self of each one of us. An examination of how and why Loneliness and its pain are necessary teachers. What is the point of the pain? An examination of the hope of the pain of Loneliness. Loneliness can be a transformative teacher.

All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

LONELINESS - Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning is available in the following bundles:

1 - 50 Minute Phone Life Coaching Session and The Ebook "Loneliness"

$89.99

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"