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"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

Abandonment Resolution Coaching

Abandonment Resolution Coaching

Price: $80.00

1 - 60 minute coaching session with A.J. Mahari to discearn the ways that unresolved abandonment is keeping you stuck and is a major obstacle to growth and change and you achieving your goals in your relationships, career, and life generally.

Many people who feel blocked, stuck, and unable to identify and/or achieve their goals and dreams in life have unresolved abandonment issues that profoundly impact their emotional experience in life and that intensify difficulty with loss and/or change.

Do you have difficulty with change? Do you have difficulty moving on after a relationship ends, a friendship changes or ends? Do you continue to think about a job that you used to have and feel stuck there emotionally? Are you experiencing a high-conflict or toxic relationship with a parent (or parents) and find that despite what you need you continue to put aside your own well-being to try to please or meet the demands of your parents? Do you find yourself trying to meet the needs or demands of others just because you "hate" loss and don't want to have to deal with it?

Underlying a lot of emotional blocks in life is unresolved abandonment. A.J. Mahari can help you to understand more about what this means for you in your life and explore with you what you will benefit from learning about yourself and how you can learn to let go, to grieve, and to move forward to identify, embrace, and achieve your goals and dreams in your life.

A.J. will help you learn to identify:

  • What is blocking you
  • What you are focusing on that isn`t helping you move forward
  • The lessons that loss and grief have to teach you
  • Effective ways of coping with your emotions
  • How to nurture and take care of yourself
  • Identify and achieve your goals and dreams
  • Help you to recognize how your here-and-now might be being shaped by your past and how you can change that

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"We have two worlds and one bridge. That bridge where we can journey toward connection is understanding. Let us all walk this bridge that spans our differences toward its centre with tolerance and an attitude of gratitude for these sacred differences that challenge us to shelter and nurture our humanity with care."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Asperger's Syndrome and Adulthood"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"