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"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

Verbal Abuse - BPD and Rage Ebooks and Rage Addiction in BPD Audio Program

Verbal Abuse - BPD and Rage Ebooks and Rage Addiction in BPD Audio Program

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Verbal Abuse Ebook - BPD and Rage Ebook and Rage Addiction in BPD Audio Program Bundle.




Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger© A.J. Mahari March 2007

Verbal Abuse The roots effects and danger
In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and informative exploration of the scope and reality of verbal abuse and its impact on those who are victims of it. In this 101 page collection of 20 articles Mahari outlines and debunks 10 Common Myths about verbal abuse, outlines things that people need to look for if they aren't sure if they are a victim of verbal abuse. A.J. examines the hook of verbal abuse that draws people into toxically abusive relationships. Also explored is the shame that results for those who are verbally abused and the reality of how this abuse flourishes behind closed doors.

A.J. Mahari, writes, "Verbal abuse is in and of itself formidable, damaging, and insidious abuse. It is not a lessor form of abuse. It has many dangerous effects and leaves in its wake a legacy of toxic relating and self-hatred"

A.J. Mahari also examines the effects of verbal abuse upon children. She takes a look at the reality of the legacy of verbal abuse as well. Along with everything else included in this ebook A.J. has written about:

  • The Roots of Verbal Abuse
  • Unresolved Abandonment Issues - Chronic Loneliness and Verbal Abuse
  • The Shame of Verbal Abuse
  • The Danger of Verbal Abuse
  • The Media and Verbal Abuse
  • Personality Disorders and the Toxic Relating of Verbal Abuse
  • The Legacy of Childhood Verbal Abuse
  • The Challenge of Change and Verbal Abuse
  • The Masks of Power and Control
  • Breaking the Cycle of Verbal Abuse
  • The Effects of Verbal Abuse
  • Verbal Abuse Behind Closed Doors
  • The Hook of Verbal Abuse
  • Toxic Relationships and Verbal Abuse




Borderline Personality Disorder and Rage - Storms in the Absence of Self

 Borderline Personality Disorder and Rage Ebook
This ebook features 115 pages of insightful must read information, about Borderline Personality Disorder and Rage and includes a chapter that deals with rage turned inwardly which is often the core of self harm.


This ebook consists of seven chapters of detailed examination, understanding, and explanation of Borderli
ne Rage from the insightful perspective of one who has been there. A.J. provides a roadmap of hope and practical steps to help the borderline stop the rage and/or stop the self harm and heal the wounds, and transform his/her life.

When one understands why he/she rages, what drives the rage experienced, acted upon, and inflicted upon self and/or others, in those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder real change and recovery can begin. It is only with this insight and understanding that those with Borderline Personality Disorder can put an end to borderline rage.

There is hope for change and for recovery. A.J. Mahari, who is now 48 years old, has been there and recovered from BPD and her 35 years of rage. From her own experience through recovery A.J. outlines and explains the 10 Keys and the 5 Roadblocks to ending Borderline Rage.

Those diagnosed with BPD, in a relationship (friend, family member, significant other, ex-partner) with someone with BPD, as well as any professional treating someone with BPD will benefit from the insight A.J. Mahari shares based upon her own recovery from BPD.



"Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder"- Audio Program by A.J. Mahari


In the audio program, "RAGE ADDICTION IN BPD" A.J. Mahari outlines and explains the formidable reality that the rage addiction is to finding recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about Rage and the reality that it is an addiction for most with BPD. As Mahari points out, as someone who has had BPD and recovered, been addicted to rage, and who no longer rages, "Rage is an addiction in BPD. It is manifested outwardly in yelling, screaming, name-calling verbal abuse, throwing things, breaking things, even physically abusing others. It is also manifested inwardly by many with BPD who self-harm. Rage is at the heart of cutting, and other forms of self-harm. Even the so-called "quiet borderline" may well be rage addicted. Quiet borderlines often emotionally abuse themselves in brutal and damaging ways and this too is a manifestation of rage."

Mahari describes in detail the anatomy of rage addication in Borderline Personality Disorder and explains how it is all about choice.

Tracks in Part One of this audio program include:

Track 1: 22 Minutes Rage - What is it and what causes it?

Track 2: 21 Minutes The Storms of Indignation

Track 3: 85 Minutes Mother as The Source of Rage

Track 4: 23 Minutes Why is Rage An Addiction For Those With Borderline Personality Disorder?

Track 5: 88 Minutes What I Learned From My Own Rage Addiction and The Choice That Needs to be Made In Order to Create the Possibility for Recovery


All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"